Whats the deal with it? I mean, i've been trying to figure it out and its as complicated as learning a sport and as simple a using a paper clip, yet, nobody can manage it perfectly. I mean, is it hormones? Is it butterflies in the stomach? Is it just plain stupidity? or is it something else? Im a constant victim of it, so far it has brought nothing good to me yet i continue going to it. Maybe its a kind of masochism. This theory kinda makes sense. Ever wondered why the best girls almost always end up with the crappiest guys? and curiously enough, they almost always have the ideal guy nearby, who was crazy about her and gave up in some point, yet he always keeps a couple of the feelings deep inside him, and he goes around breaking girls hearts and he also knows the one girl who has the heart he couldnt break. You see, its kinda complicated yet obvious, at least to me. People are going to tell me: "maybe thats YOUR case, but certainly not mine". Well, to those people i say: "if it isnt well then tell me, cause id like to learn, but most probably it IS your case, so pay a bit more attention to your life".
Im trying to get to understand this, according to scientists, chemical reaction of hormones. To me, human beings are curious beings, and this has to be one of our most amazing aspects. I mean, nobody hasnt experienced it. Deep in our DNA its mandatory to fall in love. One who says that he hasnt fallen in love is either too young, or lying. Lately i helped a friend with a bit of love troubles. She wondered why i was SOO right and always found out the solution, to which i answered: "i just pay attention." I may claim i may know a lot about it, but another funny thing, is that even the most expert person always acts stupidly on it. So i may understand it all, but, i make the same mistakes in it. Maybe a guy who doesnt know anything can actually be a million times better than i am.
This all comes from filosofical thinking and mostly cause i went to a summer house with some friends, and one of em was drunk and talking about crushes. But me and other two friends started correcting him on everything, and soon we noticed how us three had the exact same thoughts about it, finishing each others ideas. We all made very good points like: "every guy has two friends, the casanova prick who uses girls and plays with them as if they were objects, and the guy who, yeah has its bad things, but overall would make a girl really happy, yet the one who finds the girls is the first one." Sad but true. I mean, logic seems to not apply to love, why the heck do we insist on trying to apply logic to it, its not something one thinks beforehand. In love, the one who thinks, loses. Theres pretty much only one very important rule, "always fight for what you want" and as you can see, its not only in love but life itself. If you always give up, maybe you havent found that which you feel the need to fight for. Sometimes, even giving up can be a way of fighting for something, yet this is the most painful and difficult of all the ways. Ask any guy/girl who has its love bound up by a girl/boyfriend.
It would be funny if like in video games you put the mouse over somebody and see how much life and magic he/she has left, we could do that in life but with real people and seeing their current state in love, it would read curious things: "in love with a girl who doesnt like him back yet loved by his best friend", "fighting with a girl he loves, and she loves him too", "heartbroken by a guy", "loves the guy next to her in math class", "loves the girl who looks at him funny during math class", "currently not loving anybody, but loved by many, and he doesnt know". Imagine such thing, it would be hard to be cupid.
So it all can be sumed up in only one question:
What is love?
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2 comments:
i m sorry i dont have any answers to your question and i don t really think there s anybody who could give you one..
why do you insist trying to define something that you already know can t be defined?
how could you find a good way to describe love if you already know by yourself that love is undescribable?
how many side of love are there and how many sides of love did we already know?
probably it s impossible knowing them all..every single person has his personal unique loves experience from which he gets his own loves opinion,which changes by living new different things.
and it s the same for every other subject,not just for love.
knowledge is mosty made by experience.
i dont know how good is it keeping on wondering about feelings.sometimes it sounds just like if it wasn t worth since what we feel doesn t depend from us.so it d be better just taking what we get.but it usually works until things go like we would like.when they start getting worse well..then we start wondering "why?" too..because it s more difficult accepting them.
should we wonder "why" even when things are luckly fine?or should we not wondering it at all neither when accepting life becomes a challenge?
like you already said: there re no rules.there re no answers..
lycka till lilla vann..
I really liked what you wrote. i like the way you think, although i can make some great points that might change your mind. However, you have great arguments. Love the conclusion and the "love status" thing you wrote. There is something really ironic when it comes to love: "no matter how much you know about love or how great u advice on...when you are in love you just become a baby"KC
Keep the writing coz I think it's great material.
ciao Emilito
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